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STILL LOOKING FOR IT🙄 I have just been seeing different summer programs; summer lessons, summer camping, summer skill acquisitions and lot more..  Is it inside this heavy rain in Nigeria that we are "summering" you people should spare me please. What is it all about? Do we even have summer in Nigeria? If this program will be conducted abroad during the summer season then we can understand. But tagging a program or exercise summer inside this present Nigeria  Inside this rainy season is somehow funny to me. Or l am the only one not experiencing the summer.🤷‍♀️  ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

WHO IS A FRIEND 🤷‍♀️ In a world where selfishness and deceit has become the order of the day, it is difficult to get a true friend. Most people stick around when they are benefiting from you but once "the chips are down" they will disappear from your life. The true test of friendship is seen in difficult and trying moments. If You can't be my friend when I am suffering or mourning, then you have no place in my joyful moments. "A friend in need is a friend indeed" inasmuch as we wouldn't want to burden our friends, but when there's need, a good friend should fill in the gap. It's not a function of the number of friends, it's about those that can stick around even in your lowest moment. Chose your friends wisely and let's also try to be good friends to Others. It's lnternational Friendship Day! Mention those friends of yours who have been there for you......✍️ ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

LET'S BREAK IT DOWN... Hepatitis is a medical condition that affects the liver, it is the inflammation of the liver, it may be caused by viral infection, alcohol consumption or several health conditions. A lot of persons have hepatitis but just a few persons have been diagnosed. There are some barriers and limitations we need to break so many can access diagnosis and treatment for hepatitis. For our health centres l feel the government should provide basic vaccines for prevention of hepatitis. Management of Hepatitis should also be affordable in the government hospitals so those diagnosed can be treated. It's not enough for provisions to be made, individuals, families and communities should also make themselves available for treatment. Hepatitis is a contagious disease and if not tackled to the grassroot more persons will be infected. Prevention, early treatment is a better step to take. 👉Go for Hepatitis vaccination  👉Go for Hepatitis screening  👉 Go for Treatment  👉...

BETWEEN THE PARENTS AND THE CHILDREN☹️🙄 It's World 🌎 Parents Day and we can't thank our parents enough, if not for anything, at least for bringing us to this world. There may clashes though due to;  👉pattern of upbringing  👉Neglect by parents  👉Disobedience from children  👉Unachieved goals 👉Other clashes But for whatever ever reason, parents should not neglect their primary responsibility to the children. The children are watching and whatever you do as parents, those children will take it to their own families. ✍️Physical abuse  ✍️Mental abuse ✍️Cheating  ✍️Coming back late ✍️ Stealing from people  ✍️Neglecting family responsibilities  Are some of the things your children are learning from you. Lead them right so the world can be a better place for all us. Your children are watching  🙄 Happy world parents Day to all the parents 👫 ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

 HOW OFTEN DO YOU COMMUNICATE 🤔 Whether it's between you and your God, Between you and your spouse, Or among friends or siblings, communication is very important. WHY SHOULD WE COMMUNICATE  Most times when we communicate with God, it's an opportunity to tell Him how we feel and ask Him for favours. When communicate with our spouse, we understand them better, it brings clarity to some uncertainties, the love between them increase too. When we communicate with friends and siblings, we share experiences, our fears, challenges and joy. The importance of communication cannot be overemphasized, communication is not a one day action, it is a continuous action that we shouldn't neglect. If you don't communicate your feelings, We may not understand how you feel. 👉Say it 👉Share it 👉Communicate it and free yourself.  ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

FRIENEMIES...... They are almost everywhere; in your Neighborhood, in the workplace even in the churches. The bad thing about this set people is that they pretend to like/love you but they are back stabbers. They come close to know things about you and they also use them against you. Don't be deceived, It's not every smile that you should fall for, some have masked their evil intentions behind the smiles. Work with your intuition, whenever you feel this negative/bad vibes about someone be careful with the person. There are a lot of people who do not like you for who you are, ignore them and focus on their goal. It is better to live without friends that to associate with those that may destroy you. My two cents 🙌 ✍️By Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

" THEY NO ASK YOU"🫵 Most times you see persons trying to pry into other people's personal life. Some will even want to advice you on how to go about your daily life and activities. There's nothing wrong with advising people but before you do, make sure the person asked for it or actually need that advice from you. Let's learn to mind our business, it will save us a lot of stress. 'Someone once told me that her neighbour asked her to reduce the quantity of food she's giving her house help that the girl is looking too healthy' And l was wondering what the person wanted to achieve the the above advice. It's really crazy but what can we do. I also think the level of access you give people to your space will determine what they will bring to you. Create boundaries and maintain it. ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

BRAIN HEALTH FOR ALL  The brain is one of the major organs of the body and it performs a lot of function. You can be alive but brain dead, we need to do all in our power to ensure our brains performs all it functions. BRAIN HEALTH TIPS FOR DIFFERENT AGE GROUPS  CHILDREN (0-12 years) 1. STIMULATE LEARNING: Engage in activities that promote cognitive development, such as reading, puzzles, and problem-solving. 2. PHYSICAL ACTIVITY: Regular exercise improves blood flow to the brain and supports overall brain health. 3. SOCIAL INTERACTION: Encourage socializing with family and friends to develop emotional intelligence and social skills. 4. SLEEP: Ensure adequate sleep for brain development and memory consolidation. 5. NUTRITION: Provide a balanced diet rich in omega-3 fatty acids, antioxidants, and essential nutrients. ADULTS (13-64 years) 1. LIFELONG LEARNING: Engage in activities that challenge the brain, such as learning a new skill or hobby. 2. PHYSICAL ACTIVITY: Regular exerci...

WHAT DO YOU THINK 🤔 I know there's time for everything and a place for everything but some things can be an 'icing on the cake' So apart from preaching the word of God and praying, what else do you think can taught or done in the church. State your reason too ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

START EARLY..... People differ, even siblings, twins differ in character and behavior despite coming from same family. Building bond among siblings is key to avoid sibling rivalry later in life. 👉Settle the little fights,  👉Do not take sides,  👉Avoid preferential treatment,  👉 The other siblings are watching. Most times when we have children who are less intelligent, not as smart or beautiful as the other children, we tend to neglect them. What you sow is what you reap, If you sow discord among your children it lead to fight In the future. If you love and care for some living the others, it will affect the children negatively. No child is perfect  No child is insignificant  Try to encourage bonding among your children, it will be a binding force that will help them excel in future. Your children are watching 🙄 Lead them right... ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

 LIFE NO SUPPOSE HARD Life no hard na you wan use iphone, dey still dey use Nokia torch dey mak international calls 🙄 Nokia torch sef dey snap better selfie, na you no keep your face well 🥰 #sweetmotherhood

HOW MUCH HAVE YOU SAVED THIS YEAR🤔 This question is for all those that made some resolution this year to save money. My people how far🤷‍♀️ How much have you saved ? How much have you been saving ? Saving may not be easy giving our current economic situation, but when it's a culture it will be easy to maintain  HOW CAN WE SAVE🤔 ✍️Form the habit of saving little from every money you make ✍️If you are a salary earner, save something once you receive your salary  ✍️Deny yourself some pleasures and save the money for that  ✍️ Before you spend on anything, ask yourself if that is very necessary  ✍️ Don't be an impulsive buy ✍️ Don't buy everything that is trending  Saving may be difficult but not impossible, if we can save something, little by little we can get money to solve a problem or start up a business.  We can do it... ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

SMART PEOPLE DO.... Being intelligent is not just enough, you need to blend it with street smartness. There are lots of professors, engineers, doctors, lawyers that are  currently struggling to have their daily bread. 'Don't get it twisted' it's good to go to school and acquire the basic knowledge and degree. But you also need to discover how to excel in that your field beyond the basics. Smart people are those who look for a problem and try to use their skills to solve those problems. Until you start solving problems, until you start doing what others are not doing, until you decide to carve a niche for yourself, until decide to do above average you will continue to struggle. Success comes to those who work towards it and not to those who just pray for it. 👉Work well  👉Work smart  👉Be consistent  👉Be bold to take up that challenge  It will not be easy! But it will be worthwhile!  ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

REAL TIME.... I know we need to have male children as much as we need the female children too. But l feel it's really not what we should beat ourselves up about when we don't have male children especially in this 21st century. After seeing the likes of Chimamada Adichie, Ngozi Okonjo iwuala, Folorunsho Alakija Oby Ezekwesili, Hilda Baci, Funke Akindele, Mo Abudu, Veekee James among others and you are still quarrelling your wife about male children, Hmm.....🤔 You need orientation, re- orientation and re-re orientation. Train your children well so that can compete in this evolving world of Technology whether they are male or female. Greatness is not attached to any gender, any and everyone can be great regardless. Let's save ourselves some of these headaches. ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

MOVING TOWARDS THE  LIGHT💡 Searching for answers Looking for direction  Wandering in disbelief  Gathering momentum  The journey of a thousand mile Just beginning  Moving with speed Pausing to rest Wondering if it's worth the chase Racing to reach the end Pondering on what to do Thinking about what lies ahead  Our lives like a shadow  Leaving us in the dark  The whispers at night  The cool breeze all around  Why is the light looking so far Why are we struggling to reach it The leg arches the eyes growing weak  The heart beating so fast  But we refuse to give up  We refuse to stop We will not relent  Because we have a goal  At last the light  At last the end The solution  The result  We have all waited  We anticipated  And it was worth every bit of the journey  We made it  So even when the journey seems far Even if there are no glimpse of light  Keep moving until you reach t...

YOU OWE NO ONE AN EXPLANATION  Inasmuch as we don't pray for untimely death, sometimes this things just happen without even preparing us for the task ahead. Most times for men after the death of their wife, you will see them getting married almost immediately, some after 6 months others after one year and so forth. But when it comes to the women, if they even remarry after 2 years you see people judging them; families, friends, relatives, society. And the last l checked, marriage was 'till death do us part' so after death anyone can remarry. So my sisters in the hood no let anyone condemn you for doing something that is not wrong. If you see any available man after the death of your spouse, by all means grab and continue to live your life. There's no adage that states that life should end after the death of a spouse, live your life to the fullest. Don't continue to struggle alone when there's someone willing to help. You only become a supermum when you are alive...

  Facial surgery no dey change DNA, make police no ask you which person pikin you carry 🙄 There may be no time to explain...... #sweetmotherhood

I am looking for a washing machine that will come and pick my clothes, put it in the washing machine, wash, spin, dry and iron it.🥰 When it's done, it will arrange my clothes accordingly. I hope l am not asking for too much 🤷‍♀️ They even said we are lazy Nigeria youth, it's about time we we start living true to our name🙄 Who is with me on this one ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

HMM.......🤔  I was wondering why this two events should be on the same day.(7/725) Chocolate is what many children would love to take and forgiveness is one thing children don't hesitate to give. Pairing this two events for me its just a way of telling us that, just like the children would still share their chocolate with a fellow child even after a quarrel. We should learn from the children and forgive every hurt. Unforgiveness steals your peace and joy, let go of every hurt and you will be happy you did. It's World chocolate Day! and Global forgiveness Day! If you know you have ever offended me just a box 🎁of  chocolate 🍫 and l will forgive you...🥰 ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

  They no dey give prize for who first achieve dream, mak motivational speakers no stress you oo 🙄 #sweetmotherhood

WHO CAN RELATE🤷‍♀️ Those days growing up our parents did not really talk much ,most of us were  trained with eye 👁️👀 contact and bombastic side eye.🙄 Once they give a particular look yOou go just figure out what the look mean, we were not really hearing their voices. I think 🤔 that is why most of them still have beautiful singing voice at old age.  'On the other hand' Our young parents have lost their voices already, but they still have their eyes 👀 intact The only problem now is that some of old parents them now have eye problems 🙄🥸😎 At this juncture, l feel the   younger parents can chose their struggle wisely🥰 Your voice or your eyes 🤷‍♀️ ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

HAPPY NEW MONTH! It's our month of jubilation  Our month of celebration  Our month of unlimited favour  You see many reasons to give thanks to God He is going to manifest His glory in your life Believe it ! Behave it ! Become it ! It's your month... Happy new month! ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood