MY DEAR IF YOU SEE ONE GRAB....

YOU OWE NO ONE AN EXPLANATION 



Inasmuch as we don't pray for untimely death, sometimes this things just happen without even preparing us for the task ahead.


Most times for men after the death of their wife, you will see them getting married almost immediately, some after 6 months others after one year and so forth.


But when it comes to the women, if they even remarry after 2 years you see people judging them; families, friends, relatives, society.


And the last l checked, marriage was 'till death do us part' so after death anyone can remarry.


So my sisters in the hood no let anyone condemn you for doing something that is not wrong.


If you see any available man after the death of your spouse, by all means grab and continue to live your life.


There's no adage that states that life should end after the death of a spouse, live your life to the fullest.


Don't continue to struggle alone when there's someone willing to help.


You only become a supermum when you are alive to tell your story, posterity will not forgive and you may not forgive yourself.


lgnore naysayers and do what you know is best for you.


You don't need to explain to anyone.


✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu 

#sweetmotherhood

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