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  If na only be bread winner for your family abeg try empower someone else, you see that bread, no matter how you share am people will still complain say e no reach Dem🙄 Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

IT IS WELL....😒 Yesterday was world stroke day and l feel l should share this. Most times what we hear about stroke is usually the causes, signs and symptoms, the complications. But we have not really considered the effect and impact of stroke on the family finances and other family members. Stroke is a long them condition and most times the patient will not completely recover and so they will be dependent on family members. WHAT AND WHAT IS INVOLVED 🤷‍♀️ CAREGIVERS:  This may include a doctor, nurse, caregiver depending on the severity of the case. They may need a live in caregiver with doctors and nurses coming at intervals for review. MONEY:  Money is one factor we need to consider with stroke because hospitalisation, medications and payment for a caregiver and other things needed for patient's comfort and recovery requires money. OTHER MATERIALS NEEDED Apart from the medications there are necessary things you need to get for them depending on their condition; 👉Air or wa...

IT WILL HELP YOU Why do we really need to do this?🤔 well this may not be a perfect sequence in every situation, but it's effective in most cases. Most people join an organisation or are married into a family that they are not familiar with, to integrate well, you need to follow this pattern. You don't just go into a new place and start acting as you wish without observing your environment and how things are done. You may have knowledge, you may also have the best intent, but when it's not applied appropriately, it may not work effectively. Learn to;  Look🙄 Listen and 🧏‍♀️ Learn ✍️ It will help you Navigate many circumstances. My two cents 🙌 ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

YOU OWN NOTHING  Sometimes when I hear people bragging about their success and how they are successful because they are working hard, it usually marvels me. Granted we need to work hard to achieve success but honestly you are not the only one working hard, some persons who do not own half of what you have are working harder than you. "So it's not of he that willeth or runneth but God that sheweth mercy" You are successful because God blessed the works of your hand, never take that for granted. And also never look than on anybody, because anybody and everybody can still make it tomorrow. Life's turn by turn, it's your turn today and another's tomorrow, learn to return all glory to God, because "He is the one that giveth us power to make wealth" Never forget that..... ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

CONTINUOUS ACHIEVEMENT  One thing that is constant in life is change and it can be both positive or negative. For us to excel, we should be consistent in whatever we are doing as long as it right. Don't just relax because you have achieved a thing, strive for more, diversify, improve on what you are doing. Even the richest men in Africa and the world are still trying to build more wealth. Life is not static, the world is evolving and if we don't advance with the will of change, we may just be doing ordinary things when we can do extraordinary. The ball is in your court... ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY'RE WRITING✍️  Apart from copying in school which most of did and are still doing, there are still a lot of things we are copying up until now. It's not about the copying, but what we are copying..... 'Cabbage in garbage out' and everyone is coping same thoughts giving us a myopic representation. Let's digress a bit and get to other things we copy, lifestyle, behaviors, mannerisms etc. Nobody is against anyone who is copying what is right, but when we want to copy lifestyles that we cannot afford it then becomes a problem. You don't need to fake it until you make. Try to make and then live it. You can't run faster than your shadow.⛹️  so it's one step at a time until you get there.  Stop copying what you can't maintain. ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

CONGRATULATIONS DEAR 👏👏🎉  I was so elated when l heard about her wedding, God really makes everything beautiful in His own time. This is the testament that God is good and very good. But come to think of it, sometimes we are ones that put unnecessary pressure on ourselves. The last time l checked, there's no stipulated time or age bracket for anyone to get married, just like one may decide to go to school at 60 or that a career or business as 50, marriage is also same. For everyone there are seasons and time, 👉So wait for your season  👉Prepare for the time  👉And enjoy God's goodness in fullness  Are you waiting on God for your miracles and breakthrough, never relent in your prayers, God timing is always the best and at the appointed time you will rejoice like others. He is never late, He is always on time! ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

THE LESS YOU SEE😚 For those that are always asking God if they are "a spoon" 🥄 my dear it's better you remain a spoon than to be a "frying pan" receiving the heat at various times. I will always tell people that most persons on social media share only their pleasant moment for others to see. They will not show you their struggles, challenges and failures, so for those that want to tap blessings know where you are tapping from. I don't really know the full story, we have only heard from one party and we waiting to hear the other side of the story. But the long and short of the story is that ' There's Fire on the mountain' whether it's the alleged Domestic violence from uncle N3d or disrespect from sister R3gina we will soon know. So my brethren this life is not all about what you see, there's more to life than material possession. ALWAYS SEARCH FOR;  👉True Happiness  👉Peace of mind 👉 Unconditional Love And  anywhere you find it, stay ...

 I DON'T KNOW HOW YOU SEE IT BUT I FEEL ITS NOT NICE  l will be speaking from my own point of view, you may have a different  thought on that. But personally I feel it's not right, we can do better. Most times we see men few days after their marriage dropping their wedding ring and moving around as though they are not married. I don't the reason behind this action, for me dropping your wedding ring means you no longer interested in the marriage or maybe you are still searching. Granted wearing a wedding ring doesn't guarantee a successful marriage. But to me l feel it's a sign of disrespect to the wife or the husband as the case may be. I may be wrong though🤷‍♀️ But how do you feel about couples not using their wedding ring after marriage 🤔 ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

FOODIES IN THE HOUSE LETS HAVE IT.... I know we love different kinds of food that we can spend our last penny to have them. Also the quantity of the food we eat most times depends on the, our preferences, how hungry we are and the availability of the food. So for this post we will be mentioning the amount of the different foods we can finish in one sitting...😉 LET'S GO.... BREAD  How many slices of bread can you take when you are very hungry? RICE Between jellof rice, fried rice, rice and stew which do you prefer and how many cups can you finish? BEANS Which is your best beans combo and how many plates can you take? YAM  How do you like your yam; boiled, fried, roasted? And how many slices of yam can you finish in one sitting? NOODLES  Both adult and children love it, so for the adults, how many packs of noodles can you finish? Oya oo foodies in the house, let's get your answer  We are waiting 🙇‍♀️ ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

POSH LADIES, HEAR THIS 🧝‍♀️💅  The Global Hand washing Day is celebrated to create awareness on the need to wash our hands regularly to prevent infections. It's not only about the number of times you do, but how well it is done. Now to the 'POSH LADIES' that fix artificial nails, hear this...... 🧏‍♀️The nails are one the ways through which one can the get infections. 🧏‍♀️The nails can harbour infections and because we have to cook and eat with our hands, extra care need to be taken inorder not to infect ourselves. WHAT CAN WE DO 🤷‍♀️ ✍️ Wash your hands with soap and water before and after eating. ✍️After using the 'restroom' wash your hands thoroughly.  ✍️Extra time should be taken when washing the hands especially if you fixed artificial nails. ✍️ From time to time check inside those nails for dirts or even soap that was not properly washed off. ✍️ If possible use cutleries to eat 'swallow' when you fix nails, it's safer. ✍️Use quality nail polish t...

YOU PEOPLE SHOULD BE CALMING DOWN  Most times you see some serious born again Christian condemn people that use wigs, attachment and jewelies, but they still use wool and thread for they own hair. My question is, is wool not still an artificial attachment to the hair, if you want to go natural just pack your hair or barb it and leave any form of artificial attachment for the so called worldly people. You can't be using what you condemn. Let me come and be going 🚶‍♀️ ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #Sweet motherhood

EVERY GIRL CHILD SHOULD KNOW THIS In a world where the girlchild is regarded as a lower specie. A second class beneath her male counterpart, a substitute the male gender. Hear me and hear me now! 🧏‍♀️No man owes you nothing, you need to go and hustle to succeed  🧏‍♀️You don't need to be a man to be great  🧏‍♀️That you didn't give birth to a male child does not make you less a woman  🧏‍♀️You don't need a man to validate yourself  🧏‍♀️Marriage is good but if it didn't happen, go on with your life and achieve all your dreams 🧏‍♀️The males are not greater than you 🧏‍♀️You don't need to be a man to be a CEO, Director or manger 🧏‍♀️You are as important as your male siblings  🧏‍♀️You weren't born to enslave for the male folks  🧏‍♀️You can be a president, governor, minister or commissioner  Strive for independence, you gain more respect when you are  Above all never let go of your dreams, because of a man, marriage and the likes of it. What ever...

TAKE CARE OF YOUR MENTAL HEALTH  It's easier for people to take care of the physical health but neglect their mental health . Health is a state physical, mental and social wellbeing and not mere absence of illness and diseases. So if you are physically well but mentally unwell then you are not healthy. HOW CAN WE TAKE CARE OF OUR MENTAL HEALTH ✍️ SELF-CARE ROUTINES :  Establish daily habits like exercise 🏋️‍♀️, meditation 🧘‍♀️, or journaling 📝 that bring you joy and calm. ✍️ SLEEP AND NUTRITION :  Prioritize sleep 😴 and balanced diets 🥗 for physical and mental wellbeing. ✍️ SOCIAL CONNECTIONS :  Nurture relationships 👫 with friends, family, or support groups for emotional support. ✍️ MINDFULNESS AND RELAXATION :  Practice mindfulness 🧘‍♂️ or relaxation techniques like deep breathing 🌿 to manage stress. ✍️ PHYSICAL ACTIVITY :  Exercise 🏃‍♀️ boosts mood and reduces anxiety through endorphins . ✍️ LIMIT STRESSORS :  Identify and manage str...

WHAT ARE THOSE THINGS YOU CAN'T ACCEPT When it comes to relationships and marriage there are some factors that makes it last or things that can make it worthwhile. 'DEAL BREAKERS'  are those things that you wouldn't tolerate in a relationship or marriage. It varies with individual and you can have more than one deal breaker. So I will drop some list, you can choose from the list and add yours  Lies Infidelity  Physical abuse Emotional abuse  Financial irresponsibility  Religious differences Lack of physical chemistry  Stealing  Chronic Alcoholism  Smoking  Disrespect  Stinginess  Fraud star Gambling  Etc..... What are your deal breakers in a relationship🤷‍♀️ Waiting for your answers 🙇‍♂️ ✍️Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

IS IT STILL POSSIBLE 🤔 I know some persons graduated recently, l also know that some persons who graduated previously are still looking for jobs. Well the truth about this is that, the jobs available may not be enough for all the graduands but someone has to get the job. HOW CAN WE GET THIS JOBS 🤷‍♀️ ✍️ YOUR CV:  The first thing you have to work on as an applicant is your CV, because it will announce you before you even arrive. You can get a professional to help you arrange your CV. ✍️ CHECK ONLINE:  Gone are those days when you must go to an office to submit your CV, most organization will just want you to send your CV to their email. Since is what you are doing in the comfort of your home, you can submit to different organization. ✍️ ASK AROUND: Ask your family members, relatives, neighbours, friends, church members and any others person you know if there's vacancy where they work. ✍️GO AND SUBMIT: You don't have to wait until there are vacancies before you submit your CV....

THIS IS NOT FAIR 😒 In a world where people who need to be celebrated are relegated to the background and those who make little or no impact in human life and development are celebrated, it's really unfortunate.🤔 Teacher are the bedrock of our education system, moulding minds, educating leaders of today and tomorrow and leaving long lasting imprints in the life of their students. However these great warriors are barely celebrated, even when they see beyond that student sitting in a classroom, they give holistic approach to the learning process and prepare young minds for a better tomorrow. But then we don't see their sacrifices, their struggles with those "not too bright students" and those who have given up on learning and education. Enough of the complain though, we need to start appreciating and celebrating them more. So what do think we can do? How best to do you think we can do this? And when can we start? To all my teachers and all those who taught me to be gre...

WE SHOULD LET THEM BE  Most times when some couples are finding it difficult to conceive, you will see in-laws, relatives and well wishers coming to meet them to tell to them how much they need the grandchild/grandchildren, nieces and nephews. Granted we all need the children, which is part of the blessings of marriage, but honestly you don't need those children more than the couples involved, so them let them be. However you can encourage, suggest a solution and pray for them if they complain to you or ask for it. When they don't complain to you please don't give unsolicited advice. Let me add this, you can't detect what happens in another person's family or plan how they will live their lives no matter how close you are to people. Some couples like to plan for the children before they come, some are doing programs and want to accomplish it before the children start coming, others wants to bond as couples before they  start having children. 👉So keep the advice  👉...

WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE 🤷‍♀️ Please those of us that attended grammar school help us with the difference. What is the difference between; Killing Murder  Manslaughter  Shooting  Assassination  Homicide  Genocide  We understand that all 'die na die' but incase you are asked to explain in details how would you explain each of them. Answer correctly and win recharge card. Let's have it, We are waiting for the answers...🙇‍♂️ ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

A QUICK GLANCE 🥸 Looking at a 65 year old country one could barely see the grey hair which denotes ageing, maturity and wisdom. All we can see are ruins probably due overuse or misuse or lack of maintenance, either ways they are still non functional. Nigeria at 65 Hmm...🤔  What can we say about a Nation blessed with human and material resources but it citizens are looking worse than a cursed aperture of a dented lens. Swindling and syphoning of public funds, borrowing and spending with such reckless abandon, that is how we can describe our leaders daily itinerary. What can we do If you shout they shoot  If you talk you're silenced. If you protest you're tag a terrorist  We Will continue to watch and wait for a better Nation and until then we will make the most of the opportunities we have. Nigeria @ 65  Pray for the Country 🙏 ✍️Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood