A LETTER TO OUR INLAWS AND WELL WISHERS ✍️

WE SHOULD LET THEM BE 



Most times when some couples are finding it difficult to conceive, you will see in-laws, relatives and well wishers coming to meet them to tell to them how much they need the grandchild/grandchildren, nieces and nephews.


Granted we all need the children, which is part of the blessings of marriage, but honestly you don't need those children more than the couples involved, so them let them be.


However you can encourage, suggest a solution and pray for them if they complain to you or ask for it.



When they don't complain to you please don't give unsolicited advice.


Let me add this, you can't detect what happens in another person's family or plan how they will live their lives no matter how close you are to people.


Some couples like to plan for the children before they come, some are doing programs and want to accomplish it before the children start coming, others wants to bond as couples before they  start having children.


👉So keep the advice 


👉The pressures


👉And the complains 

to yourself, when they need it, they will ask for it.


✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu

#sweetmotherhood

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