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CHOSE WISELY 🤔 In a this era and season where a lot of men are graduating from 'Gehgeh' university, some men still dropped out from this university to join the "FINISHED MEN CLUB" For the benefit of those who cannot differentiate between the two  GEHGEH UNIVERSITY  it is where men are taught; To be stingy  Not to do anything extra for their women  Expect women to be royal And also contribute equally in the family  FINISHED MEN CLUB  Association of men who have vowed; 👉To assist their women, with her personal needs and house chores  👉Respect and maintain their family values  👉 Be part of raising their children  👉Love their women  unconditionally  Based on the above as a man which of this group would you like to join. Also for the women, if you have a brother which of this group would you advice him to join. Furthermore, with what is happening in marriages today, which of this group do feel will have a long lasting marriage. Your...

OUR PARENTS ARE INDULGING 😒 In those days there are certain behaviours that a young child would not part of for fear of the parents wrath. But in today's world, we are allowed to do a lot of ignoble act even in the presence of our parents. The level of moral decadence in our society is despicable and will even get worse if nothing is done about it. Granted we in the 21st century and we want to flow with the trend. However we cannot throw "caution to the wind" in certain issues because we are in the "iGeneration" or "post millennials" Morals, values and beliefs should be maintained no matter what. 👈WHAT IT WAS AND WHAT IT IS 👉 THEN: Children respected their parents and obey their instructions. NOW: Children can talk while their parents are instructing them and we call it civilization. THEN: You can't bring back items that your parents did not buy for you and things you can't afford to the house. NOW: Children can now bring back expensive gadg...

AND WHAT YOU DON'T LIKE☹️ This might be a funny question though, but there are things we don't really like about school. School activities can tasking and doing them may give us a bit of stress. From waking up  Attending lectures  Doing Assignment  Reading for Exams Writing the Exam Waiting for results  And all of that.  for our serious students this may not be much of a problem to them, but for people that belong to the other group, we know how it is.😉 So which of the school activities do you like or dislike 🤷 ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

WHEN SHOULD WE START  I was just thinking 🤔 When do you think is the right time for us to teach the children how to pray and read the bible. I mean a time that they will not be too young to understand what they are saying or reading. Also not leaving it till when they have grown and would want to make an opposite choice. Training the children to live a Godly and responsible life requires lots of work and consistency. We may not be able to do all or do much, but let's be consistent with the little we are teaching them. We want them to learn all of these but we still want them to do it at the right time. So when do you think is the right time to teach them to pray and study the word of God 🤔 ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

 INTERNATIONAL DAY FOR THE REMEMBRANCE OF SLAVE TRADE  AND ITS ABOLITION ( AUGUST 23) Are we really free from slavery 🤔 Have the chains been removed 🤔 Do we still have slave masters 🤔 Who is selling and who is buying 🤔 After several years of abolition of slave trade, we are still servants to our slave masters. We are still going back the places where are chains were removed.  We Can't really affirm that we are now free. But do you really blame us for going back to our slave masters?? For donkey years we have prayed and wished for a better Nation but all we get is the opposite. Just like the Israelites asked Moses to take them back to Egypt where they had food and water to drink. We would rather go back to the countries that enslaved us because there's enough food and water even though we sometimes have to work like a slave to get those. So as long as the country keep going from bad to worse, we would have no option than to go back to our slave masters who are willing ...

CHOSE WISELY 🤔 The people you surround yourself with, will either make you happy or sad so chose wisely. For whatever you are doing in life, your happiness, peace of mind and safety should be considered. Whether it's in friendship, Marriage, job and everything about you, know who you associate with. It may look harmless from the beginning but if you keep negative people around they will kill your joy and productivity and leave you miserable. 👉Leave friends that don't encourage or support you or your goals. 👉Avoid Marriages that keeps you miserable. 👉Ignore colleagues who do not support or cooperate with you. Life's too short to live in perpetual agony and misery, we may not always have what we desire but in everything, your happiness and peace of mind is key. Don't compromise, you deserve the best.  ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

WHICH WOULD YOU WANT TO BE PART OF We have different courses in the medical profession and each of these different profession have a role to play in the healthcare institutions. None of these profession can function without the help of the other, they work together for the wellbeing of the patient. We have; Doctors Nurses  Pharmacist  Lab scientist  Physiotherapist  Radiologist  Dietician Which of the above would you want to be part of 🤔 ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

YOU SHOULD KNOW THIS Caring for children is one of the most demanding task but we still have to care for them. When children are born, their immunity is not strong like that of the adult, that is why we need to take good care of them. There are some practice that can help the children to live in good health. BEST PRACTICES FOR CHILD CARE  ON BREASTFEEDING: 👉 for breastfeeding mothers, ensure you wash your hands before breastfeeding 👉 If you are sweating, you should bath before breastfeeding or wash the breast at least  WHEN CARRYING THE BABY : 👉We should ensure our hands are clean before carrying babies  👉 Visitors who visits the baby should wash or sanitize their hands before carrying the babies  ON DISINFECTION: 👉 Babies utensils should be disinfected after washing  👉The floors where they crawl or play should also be disinfected  👉Toys, pacifier and other items used by the children should be cleaned always  ON IMMUNIZATION: 👉 Immunization is ...

EVEN IN OLD AGE A lot of parents complain about how their children abandon them in old age, but there are still some parents who are enjoying their children more in old age. WHAT DID THEY DO🤔 Most parents feels that by dropping lots of money and buying children all the gadgets they need is the best way to show them love. There's more to do than just provide material needs for the children.  THE GROWING CHILD; 💫Needs lots of love and attention  👉They need reassurance  👉They need their parents to be around when they attain some milestones  👉They need you to provide their, physical, financial, spiritual and emotional needs  👉They always need a confidant  👉They need someone to provide answers to their numerous questions 👉They need their parents to be present and committed to their affairs  If as a parents you are not doing most of these, your children will grow up to see you as a stranger and there's nothing they are coming back to do in a house th...

HMM.......🤔  If you feed your children and starve your housemaid, it's not wickedness but witchcraft, you should be operating from a coven🙄 There's no other place more suitable for your operations. #sweetmotherhood

BUT YOU DON'T HAVE TO SHARE EVERYTHING  Inasmuch as we share same room, same bed as couples there things we should not share. I know some may feel it doesn't matter, when comes to personal hygiene and preventing spread of infection there are things we should not share. IN NO PARTICULAR ORDER... 1) TOWEL: I know most couples share this one, some even share same towel with their children. This is so wrong because once one person is infected it will spread to everyone one sharing the personal item with them. 2)TOOTHBRUSH: This is another personal item that we should not share with our spouse, some siblings do share toothbrushes too, let everyone have their own toothbrush. 3) UNDERWEAR: Yes this too, don't just go pick up your husband's boxers because you feel like wearing a short, get your  own short.A Boxer is an  underwear and should not be shared. 4)ROLL ON: This is used directly on the armpit and should not be shared. You  can share body spray, perfumes, but not rol...

WHO IS TO BLAME 🤷‍♀️ A lot of persons have made different post on this trending Ibom air incident. I want to speak from my own point of view. l am not an eye witness neither have l gotten the full details of what transpired. But this is what l have to say, If the lady in question refused to turn off the phone as instructed, I don't know their training but l feel she could have asked someone else to talk to her. Also, the passenger may be unruly but the way she was dragged to the extent of tearing her cloth was wrong. I have also seen other 2 videos from same airline where passengers were dragged for various reasons. Inasmuch as we know some passengers can be stubborn, l feel Ibom air should also check their staff, if possible conduct a training on human relationship and customer care service. This is not the time for the blame game, everyone should work on themselves, whether you a staff or a client. Package your bad behaviour until you get to your destination, 'enough of this...

HERE IS IT 👇 For those of you who couldn't make it to our Miami wedding 😉 I really took my time to capture the moments for you. From the couple to the groomsmen and bridesmaid, l got you all covered. Take your time to go through the pictures, just feed your eyes. 👀  Well congratulations to the latest couple in town, your home is already blessed. Well done Davido my in-laws and chioma 'nwannem' una doh.🙋‍♀️ ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

ARE YOU READY 🤷‍♀️ Most of us are not prepared for what we are praying for, we just want it to happen. God does not waste resources, God will give to those who He knows will make judicious use of the available resources. Have you trained your mind for the things, you want for your future. Nothing happens by accident and until you prepare you may not receive. 👉Start planning for that blessings you want in the future. 👉start taking courses on them. 👉start reading things about them. 👉Start learning new skills to help you achieve it  And when the blessings come, you will step boldly into your place of accomplishment. Learn to be ready...... ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

ITS ABOUT TO GO DOWN  My own is that, wedding wey never start but chief bridesmaid don already start work.🙄 This is from their party last night at Miami. Outfits, makeup giving what it should give  Wedding pictures and other activities loading..... Stay tuned 👉 #sweetmotherhood

SHARING TO THE WRONG PERSONS😒 We do have goals and aspirations both short and long term. Most times we get stuck, not knowing what to do next or how to go about it. Remember sharing the right goals to the wrong persons may bring bad results. 👉Tell the right people  👉Discus with like minds 👉Be open to correction  👉And you will excel Some persons may not want you to achieve greater feat than them, so they may discourage you. ✍️Identify your friends and enemies  ✍️Discover those who are for and against you. "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer" It's better to try and achieve your goals and dreams on your own than share it with the wrong persons. A lot of persons are not happy with you "the earlier you learn that the better for you" ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu #sweermotherhood

 RAISE THEM RIGHT ✅ What you teach your young children is what they will grow with. " I once overhead a conversation between a mother and her daughter, the mother was asking her if she gave her brother food before she left the house, the daughter was like the brother was old enough to take care himself. The mother then said, you need to use your brother to learn how to be a good wife, the daughter replied almost immediately, is he using me to learn how to be a good husband too? And that caught my attention. Most times we want to raise our daughters to be good wives, but we forget to teach our sons to be good husbands too. If both the sons and daughters are taught right most of the problems we experience in marriages will naturally disappear. Let's not only focus on our daughters, our sons too need to behave well. To get great Kings and Queens we need to train our princes and princesses. You can start Now! ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

IF NO ONE IS WILLING TO PUSH YOU  Keep running  Keep moving forward even when your destination or end result cannot be viewed from where you are standing. Daily routine  Good habits Learning in the process  Pursuing a goal  Staying focused is all you need. The Great things that have been achieved were not actually looking great from the onset. Start the process! Begin the plan! Activate the dream! And run with it! "It is better to crawl to your place of greatness than remain in a static point of failure" Nobody is going to push you, you have to push yourself to that point where you want to be. It's about time⏱️🕐 And time is ticking...... ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood

YOU DESERVE BETTER This fuss about marrying someone abroad so you can travel is good but.... It's good to travel abroad, bring you mum abroad for omuguo and all of that. My concern in all of this is that most times we forget to look out for the good qualities and ignore all the red flags just because we need an "abroad husband" When the "chips are down" can he be that man that will stand firm, and stand by you.  If living abroad is the only quality the man has, then run... You need to marry a man not a foreign country. I know my gender will not like this advice, but l will still drop it here. ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu #sweetmotherhood

 WELCOMING THE AUGUST VISITORS It's a month of dancing and jubilation  Our month to celebrate  We welcoming the August visitors  We welcome; Joy Peace Progress  Favour  Breakthrough  Celebration  Rejoice for your joy has come 😀 Happy New month! ✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu  #sweetmotherhood