HOW TO CONNECT WITH THEM

EVEN IN OLD AGE



A lot of parents complain about how their children abandon them in old age, but there are still some parents who are enjoying their children more in old age.


WHAT DID THEY DO🤔


Most parents feels that by dropping lots of money and buying children all the gadgets they need is the best way to show them love.


There's more to do than just provide material needs for the children. 



THE GROWING CHILD;


💫Needs lots of love and attention 


👉They need reassurance 


👉They need their parents to be around when they attain some milestones 


👉They need you to provide their, physical, financial, spiritual and emotional needs 


👉They always need a confidant 


👉They need someone to provide answers to their numerous questions


👉They need their parents to be present and committed to their affairs 


If as a parents you are not doing most of these, your children will grow up to see you as a stranger and there's nothing they are coming back to do in a house that harbors strangers.


We may not be able to do all, but we can do our best.


Children are precious gift from God and if we want to enjoy those precious gift in old age, you need to connect with them from childhood and when you do so it will be difficult for them to forget you in old age.


✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu 

#sweetmotherhood

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