NO ONE IS DOING ANYONE ANY FAVOUR

 


From my Point of view (POV) I will say this 'without fear of contradiction' that no one is doing anyone any favour when it comes to Marriage.


Marriage was created for companionship and for each person to compliment the other.


But sometimes some  men feel they are doing a lady a big favour by marrying her and some trophy ladies also feel they are doing a man a favour by accepting to marry Him.


The truth is, no matter how rich, famous and old you are if you are not married as a man, you are still a bachelor.🙄



Likewise the ladies, if like collect chieftaincy title from your village and add chief to your name, your are still a spinsters. 🤥


That you're the one providing for your family as a man should not make you deprive your wife and kids of the basic necessities.


A woman that have a means of livelihood should support the family financially.


As a matter of fact, every woman should have a means of livelihood no matter how small.


This life is really not hard, what creates the big problem is when we're;


👉Selfish 


👉Wicked 


👉Proud 


👉Disrespectful


👉Stingy 

Even in Marriage.


When we understand the essence of marriage, we will realize that No One is Doing Anyone a Favour.


We just need to cooperate and work together as one if we want this marital journey to be a smooth sail.


We can do it if we want.🤷‍♀️


✍️ Prisca Chinwendu 

#sweetmotherhood


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