WHY THE MEN ARE NOT CELEBRATED IN GRAND STYLE 🤔

WHY IS THE CELEBRATION NOT LOUD🔊

Yesterday was father's Day celebration and it was almost like there was no celebration or event.

Casting our minds back to when the Mother's Day was celebrated, the mothers were celebrated at home, in the church, on different social media platforms.

Also, Most times  when people receive award or achieve anything they always dedicate it to their mothers.

WHY ARE THE MEN NOT ALWAYS CELEBRATED IN A GRAND STYLE 🤔

I may not have all the answers to to this but l think l may know few reasons why they are less celebrated.

👉For the mothers, they are always proud of their children even when they are not doing well, but most fathers only claim their children when they are successful.

👉We have more deadbeat fathers than mothers.

👉 While men are more concerned with monetary provision, women provides money, physical presence, emotional support and general support.

👉Women Hardly abandon their children, most men have children that they don't care for.

👉 Women spend more time with the children than the men do.

👉 Women are more actively involved in everything that concerns their children; their health, morals, academics and general upbringing.

WHAT CAN THE MEN DO🤷‍♀️

Due to the role the men play as breadwinners in the family, it may be difficult for them to ever present like the women.

LET THE MEN DO THIS👇

👉Make that little moment you spend with them matter.

👉 Support your children even when they are not doing well.

👉Stand up to your responsibilities to the best of your ability.

👉Let the children know what you are doing them.

👉Communicate more with your children, whether they with you or far from you.

The men can not really win in this, but if they step up their game to the the scale of 50-80% I feel they will be celebrated more than we do now.

✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu

#sweetmotherhood