THIS OPPRESSION MUST STOP 🙅🙍

IT DOESN'T HELP 🤗

This is peculiar with Nigerians, they can oppress you with every and anything.

Most of these oppression start from a very young age, with a lot of unhealthy competition.

I don't know if it's the parents that instigates it or the children or maybe all of the above.

Almost everything for us is competition 

LET ME STATE A FEW OF THEM

✍️From primary school if a child is going to a boarding school for his or her secondary education, some will be looking down on the Day students like they are not intelligent or rich enough to be in a boarding school.

✍️After secondary school, if one should gain admission into the university he/she will be oppressing their friends who are still struggling to pass jamb.

✍️ Upon graduation we start comparing who gained employment first and who has the highest paying job.

✍️This one is mostly applicable with ladies;

Once they get married, they start with the "pepper them"attitude towards their other female friends, or they will turn motivational speakers or advisers to their single female friends.

✍️Then after marriage, it get to other achievements like buying a car, owing your own business and your connection with highly placed individuals.

What is all this?

Must we compare ?

Even some parents will be comparing their children's achievements with that of their friends.

So my Question is, after all these comparison what next🤷‍♀️

That is how we breed problems in the society.

Every one is unique and everyone has their own timing.

That you are the first to achieve something does not make you the only person that can achieve it.

Tomorrow is pregnant and we don't know what it will birth.

Let's learn to love and accommodate everyone.

Anybody can be successful don't look down on anybody.

From the place of love 💌

✍️By Prisca Ojiobianu 

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