YOU CAN TAG IT SELFISH ☹️

I CALL IT SELF DEVELOPMENT 🤔



In recent times, we have seen things happen among couples and I feel it's about time we begin to develop ourselves as individual.


Some may think l am advising couples to be selfish No, although you can decide to call it whatever you want, but this is my opinion and l am entitled to it.


As a married woman try to develop yourself either academically or  through skill or do both if possible.


Do not use children as an excuse, if anything happens in that marriage and you end up with nothing, those children will blame you too. You can put them in creche while you purse your dreams.


For the MEN especially those abroad, LISTEN to me,🧏 there's no rule that states a man cannot study nursing or any other medical related courses or be a caregiver.


Even if you can't do any of the above, look for something you can do and learn the necessary skills required, don't just sit and be training your wife with the hope, she will make money for the family when she is done with her training.


We have seen people disappointed after sacrificing for their spouse. Jesus have sacrificed for us and I feel He has done enough.


Take care of your self and mental health, human beings cannot be trusted again, your spouse inclusive.🙄


At the end if anyone decides to live anyone, everyone will still be okay.🤷‍♀️


My two cents 🙌


✍️ Prisca Ojiobianu 

#sweetmotherhood

Comments

  1. AnonymousMarch 6, 2025 at 11:32 PM

    This is the worst and most regretable mistakes many men have made, including those training their fiances.

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